Hi Franciscus, Yes I do have already a 4th lawyer now. In one of my messages I wrote that one of my previous lawyers got a warnig from Strafhouder, for not doing her job i.e ignoring my contact attemps and because of her the procedure was delayded with more than 6 months. However, she sent me a bill...
Very interesting and very extremely sad. I just received a phone call from my oldest daughter's school. They told me that my daughter is not well at all. I have met the school staff several times as I was keen and active keeping contact with them. My ex met them for the first time in March 2014, and...
Thank you Simbad for your reaction. True, I know that the system will not help me. Social assistants and even judges seem to be buying all the stories coming from them psychopaths. As known they can be very charming and convincing, just like in the case of my ex-husband. However, it surprises me bec...
The situation is complicated as I do have a problem with my 15 yrs old daughter and also now she had spoken more or less against me. Originally she got angry and hurt, because I went to my country of origin for those few weeks to save my life. I totally understand that it must have been very difficu...
The story continues... As I wrote in my 3rd message here that we are now indeed in the middle of the social enquête I just had my last meeting with them and the result is that they will recommend a Juvenile court to make a decision of children being on a week-week basis with both parents. They had b...
Hi Stace, My husband started beating me in October 2010 until September 2011. That's when I went away for some weeks because I could not take any hit anymore and I was also too afraid to talk to the police. I came back In November 2011 and tried to live with my ex again, but the violence continued. ...
I can really understand Stace your situation. If your own mother is speaking against you, these authorities here are simply so stupid, that they will see it such that it must be the truth. They cannot understand why would your own mother speak against you. They have not enough intelligence to realiz...
Thank you delady, I will check that out if the next decision is not OK. And as I said, this time I will contact even Haag human rights court if needed. At the time of the first decision I was simply so shocked, that I was not even able to do much. I did not know that the appeal time was only one mon...
Hi Stace, I'm sorry to hear that. There is also a lot of racism here and that can also play a part in all this. However, my ex is also a foreigner from Southern Europe and myself I come from a country much more developed than Belgium as Nordic countries are more advanced. All those lies of the ex pa...
The social lady told me that it’s going to be a difficult decision, because of our daughter’s handicap for instance, as she needs stability in her life and week-week system wont work with her. On the other hand the 15 years old daughter who has been brainwashed want to live with the father, and they...
October 2013 I had to change the lawyer again, because of course the trust was gone to a lady lawyer who was too busy with her life. I have a letter from Strafhouder stating that there was an issue and it is solved now, as the lawyer had apologized to me. Yes, but how was it solved when me and my ch...
Dear friends, I saw our messages only now, as I have not been logging into this site, because I did not expect to have any answers. I will now tell you more, and I am sure after reading my story you will understand why I did not even think of having any answers. It feels like nobody cares in this co...
Hi all, I'm sorry, but my Flemish is not good enough to write about such complicated subject. I come from Scandinavia, have been living here some years now. I was married for relatively long time, 15 years. In the last year of my marriage my ex-husband (not belgian) started behaving very jealous and...